My Story

Early Years

Harry, the founder, a.k.a. “Mr. Harry,” showed an early knack for charm and confidence. At just 10 years old, he was the only boy at a school disco who danced with the girls, surprising teachers and amusing his classmates. At the end of the night, he asked for his first girl’s phone number—and a hug.

In high school, Harry gained a reputation as a free-spirited maverick. Though initially on track for straight ‘A’s’, he soon became more interested in challenging authority and mastering the social scene. He skipped classes to act in TV shows, shared kisses behind the school field, sold cigarettes during breaks and rapped with a group of like-minded rebels.

At the age of 15, while in a bookstore, Harry stole a copy of Neil Strauss's book The Game, igniting a deep fascination with dating, pickup, and seduction. Now, 13 years later, Harry has developed his own unique seduction style, which is pure and direct, emphasising playfulness, flamboyance, honesty, and captivating suitors with his adventurous tales.

When Everything Changed

At 16, Harry's life took a dramatic turn when a traumatic near-death experience led him to embrace sobriety and focus on healing his body and mind through physical and mental disciplines. He dedicated years to martial arts, delving into physical training, meditation and personal development practice to heal. Eventually he studied Chinese medicine, becoming a licensed acupuncturist and practicing Tuina therapist.

Armed with curiosity, Harry embarked on a global journey to explore human emotions, relationships, and connection. He spent months studying in Buddhist monasteries across Europe with Tibetan lamas and meditation experts. His six-month solo motorbike trip across India led to filming a documentary series on Tantra titled Master of Two Worlds. This project introduced him to world-renowned dating and seduction experts in bustling European cities, where he gained invaluable insights from top dating coaches and observed the transformative journeys of their students and colleagues in the field.

Harry’s journey eventually immersed him in the world of pickup artists and dating coaches. He lived and learned with them in vibrant cities, attended workshops, and played a key role behind the scenes. Along the way, he observed hundreds of people, including some close friends, meet their partners and fiancés, witnessing various ways people connect. Combined with his own personal relationships and romantic adventures, Harry gained invaluable insights from living among dating coaches and specialists who teach personal growth, relationships, intimacy, and success in dating.

For the past decade, Harry thrived in his role at "The Natural Lifestyles," one of the world's leading dating coaching companies. He has been a charismatic part of numerous workshops, guiding and advising countless students on cold approaches, dating, and relationships. Meanwhile, he has cultivated a wealth of personal experience and love stories.

A Romantic Escapade.

My Style

Through his personal experiences with the challenges of meeting, dating, and deeply connecting with others, coupled with his active involvement in the modern dating coaching world, Harry has gained invaluable insights. Having navigated his own journey from figuring out dating from an early age and the desire for love to becoming both a student and a coach, he has witnessed numerous inspiring success stories and learned firsthand what works and what doesn’t in contemporary dating.

His unique perspective is further enriched by consulting with top dating coaches, successful students, and esteemed thinkers and other experts in human connection and emotion. This blend of personal experience and professional insights allows Harry to offer a genuine and well-rounded perspective on dating, providing practical remedies and advice for those seeking guidance.

Why choose us ?

Harry brings profound knowledge and real-life experience to the dating community, enriched by his personal journey in Natural Seduction through years of trial and error. His balanced perspective on coaches, methods, and theory makes him a valuable asset in the dating world. With expertise in social dynamics, dating, and intimacy, he can holistically guide you to become someone who exudes abundance and vitality in your dating life.

The Reel Life Team

Along the journey, I have communicated, collaborated, and taken the time to gather the best people whom I trust wholeheartedly and who offer real expertise not only in dating and relationships, but also in areas such as body language, psychology, and meditation. My work with a team of handpicked, professional coaches, assistants, and guest experts ensures you receive the best possible transformation, offering balanced and varied approaches to all aspects of dating and your personal growth journey.

Saan Karandish

COACH

Sona

Personal STYLIST / ASSISTANT

Jaden Smith

PHOTOGRAPHER

Jessica Kim

GUEST SPEAKER